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Things To Think About With An Outdoor Wedding Reception

Monday, June 14th, 2010

Outdoor wedding receptions are often dreamt about by young girls, and may include having the last light of day brighten up a dress or a kiss. Guests gather around to eat and celebrate and watch the day go down. As evening arrives, white lights sparkle as couples begin to dance in each other’s arms.

Adding an element of the outdoors is a common desire for many brides. It seems natural to commemorate vows between husband and wife under the skies they were born under. Finding the right wedding reception venue will only help turn a bride’s dream into a reality.

With so many options to choose from, making a few decisions first will help narrow down choices. The first questions to ask are how many people are coming? What time of year do I want my wedding? Is there a specific area of the country that I want to be married in (mountains, beaches, cities)?

Once that’s narrowed down, the next decision is how many people will be coming. Will this be an intimate affair of fewer than 50 people, or will it be a lavish celebration with hundreds of guests? This will be a big factor in finding a wedding venue. Most places have a limit of guests they can accommodate. So before you get your heart set on one location, be sure they can entertain as many guests as you’re hoping to invite. Also find out what alternatives there are if bad weather rolls in. Will you be in a tent, or is there an indoor space that would work?

Another decision is how much of your wedding day do you want to celebrate outdoors? Do you only want the ceremony outside and reception inside? Would you prefer dinner be served outside and dancing take place inside? Once that is decided, then it’s time to figure out what time the outdoor events will be happening. If you are having an afternoon wedding and only the ceremony is going to be outside, then you don’t need to worry about lighting. If, however, you are having your ceremony or dinner in the evening or when it’s dark out then lighting is going to be a huge consideration.

As far as lighting goes, there are several options. The first is figuring out what lighting the venue already provides. Some venues have gas lamps outside and fireplaces for ambiance and heat. Candles always give a romantic feel to the setting. Some places will have spotlights that light up trees and shrubbery. For an outdoor wedding reception, you may want to consider tiny white lights that can be strung through trees and bushes. If you have a favorite color, or want to incorporate the lighting into your color scheme, then think about using colored lights, or Chinese lanterns.

Outdoor weddings can take place year-round in places like Arizona, California or Florida. Keep in mind the night will cool off, so it’s important to have ways for guests to keep warm. Finding venues that have outdoor fireplaces become a great place for guests to congregate and get to know each other.

Taking a tour – virtual or physical – of the venue for your outdoor wedding reception is going to help you visualize if your color scheme will work with the features of the venue. There may be herringbone brick floors, or a certain flower blooming at that time that you may want to use to accentuate your color scheme. No matter what you choose, having at least some part of your ceremony outside is a beautiful way to celebrate your union.

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Brides Involve Their Grooms

Monday, November 9th, 2009

Do I really have to do this?

The pre-wedding test causes many Bridegrooms to utter questions just like this.

Ladies are famous for their excitement over their weddings, but their Men are also known to be less thrilled. Some Men complain of feeling uncomfortable during the pre-wedding process and activities. Are they less social or less emotionally expressive?

Think about all the traditional events that Bridegrooms may face as they plan for their weddings. It is traditional for the Men to find their prospective brides ; ask for a date; pay all the bills as they court; meet the brides ‘ parents and friends; make a good impression on everyone; develop vibrant relationships with the brides ; ask the ladies to agree to get married; ask the fathers of the ladies for the hands of the fiances’ ; announce engagement; attend pre-wedding showers; attend pre-wedding parties; attending wedding counseling; participating in wedding rehearsals; dressing up in formal penguin suits; get through the wedding ceremony; survive the wedding rehearsal; doing everything right without getting upset; even paying for the honeymoon.

Grooms may feel like they are enduring a seemingly endless series of tests before they can even think about actually getting married. Why would anyone face this kind of pressure by choice?

As a minister, I make it a practice of meeting with ladies and Men a month or so before the wedding. In a majority of the situations, the ladies are all excited and full of ideas. The ladies come with questions and notebooks ready to lay out every detail. Often Grooms come along with their fiances’ and sit there with blank stares.

I discovered, that Men have their own ideas, but they may hesitate to share their thoughts, feelings, and interests. For this reason, after listening and interacting with the ladies ; I turn to the Bridegrooms and begin asking open ended questions to uncover their thoughts.

Bridegrooms sometimes express the idea that the wedding is for the brides . Bridegrooms may even say they are just along for the ride. Bridegrooms do not want to ruin the dreams of their fiances’ . They do not stifle the excitement and hopes of their ladies .

Great ideas and deep seated feelings are often held by Men . Expressing these with sensitivity is an art. It takes some thinking, listening, and dreaming as well as careful open communication.

The wedding planner or coordinator, the wedding minister, and the fiances’ can greatly help support the Men by early planning, effective listening, and genuine efforts to include the Grooms in every phase of the process. The better Men feel about being part of their own pre-wedding and wedding; the more likely they will enjoy successful marriage.

Little girls begin dreaming of their wedding day soon after they learn to walk and talk. Bridegrooms , on the other hand, begin thinking of their wedding day when they find their dream girl. It takes a little time for Bridegrooms to catch up, but it is important for marriage to make sure Grooms are included in the process.

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