Archive for July, 2007

Plan the Ultimate Wedding Venue for Your Hawaiian Wedding

Friday, July 27th, 2007

Nothing is more fun than planning a party for all your friends, but when trouble strikes on a large gathering it appears much large than it needs to because there are more people involved. To avoid all this and prepare a wedding event that is full of fun and happiness keep in mind your guests and their needs as well and you’ll have the party of a lifetime.

The last time I attended a wedding it was a disaster getting there because it the facility was in a far off place that I don’t normally go and I knew the general area but I wasn’t completely familiar with the streets. If this is what your guests will say about your wedding than pick another venue or make sure your directions are clear, signs are placed on the main streets leading to your building, and decorate the building so no one can miss it. This makes for a pleasant evening instead of a stressful one.

Then once I arrive, it would be nice to have a gathering area where I can feel welcomed and meet others without crowding into a small area with people I’ve never met. Call me crazy but showing up to meet 100 or more people I’ve never met is not my cup of tea. But I warm up quickly if I’m comfortable.

What kind of party are you having? Once you know this you can better choose a building because you’ll know if you having a line or not, and whether there will be a huge dance floor or just a place for some live music in the background. These differences will help you decide on the right venue because you’ll better understand your needs for the building.

Sometimes creating a kid friendly activity will help keep them busy and relax your guests so they can enjoy your wedding as well. You will need room, usually in view of their parents, for this to work so maybe this is something for you to consider as well. Making the children the center of the party may also work in that all of the activities include them and have a theme about families therefore making your guests feel the most comfortable.

Hiring a caterer or using the facilities catering department is the question of the day when picking the right building. You want to be sure to weigh your options here because one is usually more expensive than the other, but one is much more convenient. Can you guess? On-site catering is usually more expensive and convenient and this can lower your stress level. Neither is bad just be sure you know what you’re getting.

Finding space for everyone is the key to finding the right building. Your entertainers, whether they be djs or live musicians, will need somewhere to setup and play and you’ll want to be sure they have the room necessary to make this a hit at your party.

Make sure the venue you choose goes along with the theme of your wedding so you can feel at home here too. It’s important to not only find a place that isn’t already booked, but find somewhere that provides the ambiance you’re trying to create so your pictures will bring back all the memories you’ve hoped for.

by Jill Andrus

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Top 10 Honeymoon Destinations

Tuesday, July 24th, 2007

I love watching the travel channel and seeing all the far off places that would be great to visit. Planning my next vacation in my head. The Travel Channel did a top 10 honeymoon location list, see if your honeymoon idea made the list:

10. Camino Real Acapulco Diamante, Mexico

9. The Bellagio Hotel, Las Vegas

8. Fairmont Chateau Lake Louise, Canada

7. Walt Disney World, Florida

6. Amankila, Indonesia

5. Grand Hotel Florence, Italy

4. Caneel Bay, St. John

3. Bora Bora Lagoon Resort, French Polynesia

2. Hyatt Regency Aruba Beach Resort & Casino, Aruba

1. Four Seasons Resort Hualalai, Hawaii

Tags: Honeymoon, Hawaiian honeymoon, Las Vegas honeymoon packages, European vacations, Mexico honeymoon packages, Caribbean vacation packages

Who Pays For What?

Tuesday, July 24th, 2007

Now that you popped the big question, and the wedding planning is in full swing, who pays for what?
More and more now days the bride and groom are footing the bill for the whole thing verses years ago
when the brides parents picked up the tab. It really is between you and your bride to decide how to split
the bill for the big day, but here is a list of what the Groom is traditionally suppose to cover.

The Rehearsal Dinner
*Invitations
*Site
*Food
*Drink
*Decor

Rings
*The bride’s engagement ring
*The bride’s wedding ring

Gifts
*A wedding gift for the bride
*Gift for best man
*Gifts for groomsmen

Flowers
*The bride’s bouquet (only in certain parts of the country)
*The bride’s going-away corsage
*Corsages for immediate family members (check with the bride, as she may have this in her floral budget)
*Boutonnieres for groomsmen and ushers

Clothing
*Your own tuxedo, whether you rent or buy
*Ties, gloves, vests/cummerbunds for the attendants if they are not part of the rental package

Lodging & Transportation
*Accommodations for out-of-town attendants
*Your own accommodation
*Accommodations and transportation for out-of-town celebrant if he or she was invited by your family
*Transportation for yourself and your best man to the ceremony
*Transportation and accommodations for your parents

Paperwork
*The marriage license
*Your own medical tests
*The celebrant’s donation or fee

The Honeymoon
*Transportation to the honeymoon destination
*Lodging
*All meals
*All activities

Tags: rehearsal dinner rings gifts flowers tux lodging & transportation honeymoon

Memorable Proposals

Thursday, July 12th, 2007

Guy’s it’s all about the proposal, its the one thing she will always remember, and tell her friends about,
so you want it to be good. Get creative; women love that. They like to know that you put some thought into
asking them to be your wife, and that it wasn’t an after thought.

Here are some ideas for inspiration:

  • While on vacation is always good, especially if the place is somewhere significant.
  • The Christmas Gift Proposal can be fun, especially if you can orchestrate both sets of parents to come over for the Christmas holiday.
  • Attach the ring in the center of a rose (the florist can assist you in doing this) and give her the rose on a special day.
  • Lookout point proposals have never failed, neither have sunset beach proposals.
  • Write the words, “Will you marry me, ___” in the sand. But for all the guys with girlfriends, please write her name too; just so there is no confusion for those who happen to walk by.
  • Many colleges have traditional places where people get engaged. Ask around and plan an evening to go to that spot. Have your friend place rose petals and candles around the spot before you arrive.
  • Go to a sporting event. Convince a seating section opposite of you to hold up a sign at a specific time on the game clock.
  • Contact the stadium manager at a sporting event you are attending, and ask to flash a message on the screen or scoreboard. You would be surprised at how receptive they are to your request.
  • After instructing everyone on how to fasten his or her seat belt, have the flight attendant ask it over the intercom while flying to a vacation destination.
  • Billboards and newspapers can be expensive, but college newspapers can be more reasonable. Make sure she reads that paper!

Tags: Grooms, Wedding Rings

How to Dance Like a White Guy: Wedding Edition

Sunday, July 8th, 2007

I found this video on Youtube today and thought I would share it with you.

[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWyr7xnTu6c]

There are other videos in this series too like:

[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2HiuCaaQhxg]

Enjoy.

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